The funny thing is, I'm the same way. When I'm not well I'd want to kill anyone who fussed over me (except that I'm not well enough to do it). I suppose because I grew up without fussing. I know it's meant well, but it's an irritant at the time. However, I'd call one guy dragging his injured partner out of the line of fire and holding a hand to a bleeding wound until help arrives H/C. Emergency H/C, and grudging H/C. That's what I like. :) The tucking in of covers, etc., is OK if not overdone. If it goes a little too mommy-ish, I admit I don't care for it.